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The KonMari Method of Dealing With Grief/Refinery29

The KonMari Method of Dealing With Grief/Refinery29

I am 30 years old. My closets are overflowing with wool coats, shiny at the elbows from use, and belts whose leather curves approximate the shape of a woman’s waist. But the clothes don’t bear marks from my own body; they belonged to my mother, who died when I was 23.

For Refinery29

MIA Vietnam Soldier Laid to Rest 36 Years After Disappearance/HuffPost

MIA Vietnam Soldier Laid to Rest 36 Years After Disappearance/HuffPost

Every Memorial Day, I take out a scrapbook my grandmother made over 40 years ago. Each page is filled with headshots of young men with stiff Air Force hats clamped to their heads, their newly-buzzed hair just visible above formal collars. Some gaze at the camera confidently, their broad shoulders filling the frame, while others appear too young for the uniforms buttoned around their necks. Under every face is the exhortation: WHERE IS HE? My uncle’s face is on page three.

For The Huffington Post